You're getting things done. You're showing up. You're taking care of what needs to be taken care of. But underneath it all, your mind won't slow down, you're exhausted from overthinking, everything feels heavier than it should, or you've started wondering why life seems easier for everyone else.
Anxiety and depression don't always look like falling apart. Sometimes they look like functioning - just at a cost.
Anxiety and depression don't always look like falling apart. Sometimes they look like functioning - just at a cost.
Anxiety can sound like...
- "What if I'm making the wrong decision?"
- "I know I'm overthinking this, but I can't stop."
- "Everyone else seems to handle this better than I do."
- "If I slow down, everything will fall apart."
- "I just need to get through this week."
It can show up as chronic worry, perfectionism, people-pleasing, panic, irritability, difficulty resting, physical tension, or constantly preparing for what might go wrong.
Depression doesn't always look like sadness.
Sometimes it feels like heaviness, disconnection, low motivation, irritability, exhaustion, numbness, or going through the motions without feeling fully present in your own life.
You may still be working, parenting, socializing, and checking the boxes while privately wondering why everything takes so much effort.
How therapy can help: